Princess Diana’s Butler Returns After Almost 30 Years Away from the Royal Family
London, September 2025 — Paul Burrell, the former trusted butler to Princess Diana, is once again making headlines, nearly three decades after Diana’s tragic death in 1997 and his subsequent departure from royal duties.
Burrell, who served Diana from 1987 until her passing, has recently spoken out, sharing a deeply moving reflection: Diana “predicted that Harry would leave the palace for some reason, but asked Paul Burrell to send a few words to Harry on his 40th birthday…”
A Message from Diana to Harry?
While the exact wording of the message hasn’t been publicly disclosed, Burrell’s revelation highlights the depth of Diana’s emotional foresight and her enduring devotion to her sons. She seemed to sense the difficulties Harry might face in the future, and entrusted Burrell—her “rock” and confidant—to deliver what must have been personal, heartfelt words of support.
Harry’s 40th Birthday: Reflections in Exile
Approaching his milestone 40th birthday (which he marked on September 15, 2024), Prince Harry was described by Burrell as feeling “homesick.” Burrell predicted the Duke would spend the day in what he called a figurative exile—enjoying a subdued celebration at his Montecito home in California, away from the traditional royal festivities.
According to Burrell, “If Harry doesn’t have regrets, he doesn’t have a soul,” suggesting a period of introspection and longing as Harry reflected on his past life and family connections.
Diana’s Love for Her Sons
Despite hating her own birthday—Diana would often remain alone, writing thank-you notes instead of celebrating—she lavished William and Harry with elaborate celebrations. Burrell emphasized how much she would have wanted to honor Harry’s 40th birthday, and how deeply she would have hoped for a reconciliation between her sons.
The Fractured Brotherhood and a Home’s Hope for Peace
Burrell also spoke about the strain between Harry and his brother William, describing Kate Middleton as a mediator in the dispute. He expressed Diana’s desire for her sons to “make amends,” hoping William would reach out to wish Harry a happy birthday and repair their relationship. But the rift remains palpable, exacerbated by public disclosures and personal betrayals that followed Harry and Meghan’s move away from royal duties in 2020.